Tuesday, March 08, 2011

52 Books: Book 13


When traveling home from Arkansas, I read Same Kind of Different As Me by Ron Hall and Denver Moore. Even if I hadn't been in a car for so long, I think I would have read this book in one setting.

It is a memoir of Denver, a modern-day plantation slave from Louisiana, and Ron, an international art dealer from Texas. The paths of these two men eventually cross at a homeless shelter in Texas where they form an unlikely friendship at the nudging of Ron's wife, Debbie. Coming from vastly different worlds, these two men find a connection through a shared faith in God.

Excerpts from the book:
Sometimes it's drinkin or druggin that lands a man on the streets. And if he ain't drinkin or druggin already, most fellas like me start in once we get there. It ain't to have fun. It's to have less misery. To try and forget that no matter how many "partners in crime" we might hook up with on the street, we is still alone.

I didn't scare everybody, though. I slept on the doorway of that United Way over on Commerce Street for a whole lotta years. And every mornin for all that time, a lady who worked there brought me a sandwich. I never knowed her name and she never knowed mine. I wish I could thank her. Funny, though. That United Way buildin was right next to a church, and for all them years, nobody at that church ever looked my way.

With the museums, the restaurants, and the malls, I was showing Denver a different way to live, a side of life in which people took time to appreciate fine things, where they talked about ideas... But he remained unconvinced that his way of life was no worse than mine, only different, pointing out in the process certain inconsistencies: Why, he wondered, did rich people call it sushi while poor people called it bait?

"Ever man should have the courage to stand up and face the enemy... 'cause ever person that looks like a enemy on the outside ain't necessarily on the inside."

I used to spend a lotta time worryin that I was different from other people, even from other homeless folks. Then, after I met Miss Debbie and Mr. Ron, I worried that I was so different from them that we wadn't ever gon' have no kind of future. But I found out everybody's different - the same kind of different as me. We're all just regular folks walkin dow the road God done set in front of us.

Monday, March 07, 2011

Menu Recap

Last week I was visiting family, so no pictures of meals. I made Daniel a Pot Roast with Carrots and Potatoes (in a crock pot) and a pan of Poppyseed Chicken for him to eat for the week... I think he was getting bored with his options by the end of the week. On the other hand, I had the luxury of family cooking for me. All of the meals were scrumptious.

Monday Dinner: I was at my sister's in Nashville, TN and my brother-in-law made Hamburger Steak with melted Swiss Cheese and Sauteed Mushrooms and a Salad and Baked Potato on the side.

Tuesday Dinner: My sister and I traveled to our parent's house in Searcy, AR and our mom made Taco Soup.

Wednesday Dinner: My mom made Pot Roast with Carrots and Mashed Potatoes and Gravy (same as what I had made for Daniel).

Thursday Dinner: My mom {and niece} made homemade pizza.

We made Banana Splits for dessert {mine was bananas, vanilla ice cream, corn flakes, coconut and chocolate syrup}.

Friday Dinner: My mom made Poppyseed Chicken, Rice, a Salad and Blackberry Cobbler (I promise that my mom and I did not coordinate our meal plans!).

Saturday Dinner: Back to Nashville where my brother-in-law made Fried Chicken, Mashed Potatoes and a Salad. 

Sunday Dinner: Back home in Alabama. We had leftover Poppyseed Chicken.

Sunday, March 06, 2011

Girl's Trip


I just spent a week with my sister, my 20-month-old niece and my parents in my hometown of Searcy, Arkansas. 


It was a nice respite and I decided to take a break from blogging.


It was a lovely week. Angela and I shared a room, a true throw back to growing up. 


It was nice being around a toddler and experiencing the world through her eyes: big belly laughs, learning new words and generally appreciating everything. 


As always, it was great to see our parents: there was great food, discussions about books we had recently read and of course, scrabble. 


We also were blessed to see our Aunt and Grandma.


We visited old haunts: including the Harding campus and a trip to Bobby's (now Maddie's) for breakfast. 


I ran into a high school friend {at the drive-in at the bank of all places}. 


My dad and I discussed gardening and he provided me with some starter seeds for the garden I am planning on planting soon.


Izzy had to be a part of everything: including making her own pizza...


and helping in the garden.


I managed to get in my first 6-mile run {I figured skipping a week of running while training for my first half-marathon would be a bad idea}.


 I also managed to read two books during the week: The Happiness Project and Same Kind of Different As Me.


The only negative to the trip was that Izzy tripped and fell on Friday, breaking off part of her two front teeth on a concrete floor. She is a real trooper and wasn't phased by the experience... her mommy on the other hand was pretty upset.

I am home now. We are bumming it today because Daniel managed to come down with Bronchitis while I was gone and is still feeling pretty crummy.

Friday, March 04, 2011

52 Books: Book 12


Last week I had a conversation with my little brother about my inane fear of tornadoes. I have had to deal with tornado warnings for a good portion of my life and yet I still get scared of them. My brother wanted to know if I saw the glass as half empty or half full. I told him that it depends. I like to think that I am an optimist {or that I at least try to be optimistic}, but obviously my fear of dying in a tornado is a pessimistic view of life.

Following that conversation, I started reading The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin. The Happiness Project is Gretchen's year-long quest to discover if by studying happiness and making deliberate choices could lead to a happier life. She feels that she is a basically happy person {I can relate} but believes that there may be a way to increase her happiness.

She divides her year up by months and focuses on smaller resolutions each month to increase her happiness. These resolutions include: decluttering her life, choosing not to get angry over small things, having more fun with her children, fighting less with her husband, exercising regularly, deliberately spending money, choosing to do hobbies she enjoys, studying religion, etc.

It was a very interesting book, but I found myself thinking that a lot of her deliberate resolutions were things that I already choose to do on a daily basis. It was a good reminder that we get to choose whether we are happy or not and that sometimes just making the effort will make us feel happy.

To that note, I think I better start choosing not to be afraid of tornadoes...

Excerpts from the book:
"All truly great thoughts are conceived while walking." ... {Nietzsche's} observation is backed up by science; exercise-induced brain chemicals help people to think clearly.

Oscar Wilde observed, "One is not always happy when one is good; but one is always good when one is happy."

"There is no love; there are only proofs of love." {Pierre Reverdy}. Whatever love I might feel in my heart, others will see only in my actions.

"The chief happiness of a man is to be what he is." {Erasmus}

"Between the ages of twenty and forty we are engaged in the process of discovering who we are, which involves learning the difference between accidental limitations which it is our duty to outgrow and the necessary limitations of our nature beyond which we cannot trespass with impunity." {W.H. Auden}

Happiness doesn't always make you feel happy. When I thought about why I was sometimes reluctant to push myself, I realized that it was because I was afraid of failure – but in order to have more success, I needed to be willing to accept more failure.

The days are long, but the years are short.

To eke out the most happiness from an experience, we must anticipate it, savor it as it unfolds, express happiness, and recall a happy memory.

"Of all the things that wisdom provides for living one's life in happiness, the greatest by far is the possession of friendship." {Epicurus}

When money or health is a problem, you think of little else; when it's not a problem, you don't think much about it. 

"The things that go wrong often make the best memories." {Gretchen Rubin's mother – I heartily agree with this statement}

...I {do} often view people who make critical remarks as more perceptive and discriminating. At the same time, though, it's hard to find pleasure in the company of someone who finds nothing pleasing.

Monday, February 28, 2011

Menu Recap

Last week's meals were as follows:

Monday Dinner: Chicken Cordon Bleu and Roasted Brussel Sprouts 
{Recipe adapted from Kevin and Amanda}

Tuesday Dinner: White Bean, Sausage and Spinach Stew 
{Recipe adapted from Real Simple's recipe for White Bean and Andouille Sausage with Collard Greens}
Wednesday Dinner: Chipotle Steak Fajitas
Thursday Dinner: Orange Shrimp with Rice and Black Beans 
{Recipe adapted from Apple A Day}
Friday Dinner: We ate a BuenaVistas with friends. I had a Shrimp Chimichanga and Daniel had Beef Enchiladas.

Saturday Lunch: Baked Grilled Cheese

Saturday Dinner: We hosted a pizza/game night.

Sunday Dinner: Visiting at my sister and brother-in-law's house. My BIL made baked chicken, mashed potatoes and salad.

 Sunday Dessert: My brother and I made Brownie Sundaes.

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Pizza and Games

When we have people over, I am most likely going to try out some new recipes and tonight was no exception. As the "social chair" of this household {Daniel's words} I had Daniel invite several of his co-workers over for a small dinner party. I thought homemade pizza and games would be a great way to end the week.

When planning the menu, I decided on spinach dip and bacon-wrapped jalapenos for appetizers.
 
Spinach Dip
Recipe from SkinnyTaste.com

Bacon-Wrapped Jalapenos
Recipe from The Pioneer Woman

Then I decided on BBQ Chicken, Supreme and Chicken Florentine pizza. All turned out great {even my store-bought crusts}. 

BBQ Chicken Pizza
Recipe from All Recipes 

 
Supreme Pizza
Recipe from All Recipes


 Chicken Flortentine Pizza
Recipe from Yummy Mummy


Finally there was the dessert: I tested a S'mores Stuffed Chocolate Chip Cookies recipe. These cookies were quite the mess to make, but tasted amazing. 

Gigantic S'mores Stuffed Chocolate Chip Cookies
Recipe from Picky Palate

In addition, we had chocolate cupcakes with home-made butter cream {thanks Anna} and pretzel-rolo-pecan bites {thanks Laura}

After dinner we played Cranium and the boys beat the girls {barely}. Then the girls dominated at Catch Phrase. Finally we played partner Nerts until we were all silly from exhaustion. It was a fun night overall.

I am tired and still need to pack as I am headed to Searcy for the week on a girls road trip with my sister and niece to visit my parents.

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